Christian dating process
Divorce Dating after a divorce can seem confusing and tricky especially where your ex is concerned.
Many people believe that dating after a divorce should never concern an ex, but if contact is being heavily maintained due to continued shared property, and split custody and visitation over children and pets, your ex is going to find out pretty quickly that you are seeing someone, even if you choose not to tell them.
If you don't want to involve yourself in conflict and screaming matches with your ex over who you are dating, here's what to do.
It always amazes me how many break ups and divorces occur because one spouse wants to date someone's brother or best friend.
I've never gone down this road myself but have heard from friends how dating your ex's best friend/brother after a divorce has not only led to the obvious painful gossip, but these relationships led to further disharmony and family and friendship breakdown.
Even worse, they rarely last long term; after all if your dating your husband's best friend your dating someone with very similar qualities as your ex.
If you couldn't stand him, why would this relationship last?