Dating a hooker jealousy

###There’s no way around it — the person you’re dating probably had sex with someone else before they had sex with you. Maybe in wild, kinky ways that you thought only happened in the most secret clubs in Bangkok. In any case, if you want to be involved with this person, it’s your responsibility to get over it.

No one’s going to say that it’s easy to deal with your partner’s sexual past, especially if it’s more colorful than your own.

If you’re finding it difficult to get past the jealousy, you’re not alone.

The Frisky recently published a piece about a boyfriend who made his girlfriend feel ashamed of her sexual history.

The Gloss had a post yesterday in which a variety of women explored whether or not they could be with a man who had slept with a prostitute.

Though not everyone experiences debilitating rage when they think of a partner’s past, it would be safe to say that jealousy is something that most people have to deal with at one point or another. We may be hard-wired to rid the world of sexual competitors, but it is an impulse that can be controlled and even used to our advantage in relationships. STDs aside, your partner’s sexual past is really their business.

If they’re telling you about it, it’s probably because they care enough about you to be upfront. They’re being honest, which gives you license to be honest about your feelings about it.

Just try to be aware of when you’re sharing your feelings and when you’re irrationally blaming your partner for hurting you with their past behavior.

Consider yourself lucky that someone else got the brunt of their awkward phase. But make sure you’re not punishing someone for that happened before you met and can’t be undone. If everything else about them works for you, that’s what matters.What would you actually have your partner do about their sexual past? First of all, changing the past could do irreparable damage to the space/time continuum. Whoever else they had sex with, however many of them there were, IT HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. You don’t have to worry so much about them leaving you at 45 to go on a motorcycle tour of the nation’s brothels. Of course, if they’re not treating you how you think you deserve to be treated, that might be what you’re really upset about. That may have come in part by having their attractiveness confirmed in the past. It’s not necessarily with a “perfect ten.” The best sex is with the person who understands you the best.Just because someone has a promiscuous past doesn’t necessarily mean you have to worry about their insatiable sexual appetite. It may have also come from getting screwed over and healing. Just because you’re jealous doesn’t mean you’re a psycho. Feeling like someone wants you all to themselves can be a huge turn-on. It’s with the person who is the most turned on by you. You’ll be amazed at how little the past matters when you’re both having the best sex of your lives. Remember that, if you like this person, it’s every experience they’ve ever had that made them into the person you like. Go ahead and tell the person you’re dating all about how you feel. You want to murder everyone they’ve ever had sex with? While your partner should be as sensitive as they can to your insecurities (we’re all human), they shouldn’t be made to feel guilty. Maybe you need to take a break and go have sex with a bunch of people.

Porn star Allie Haze has been dating her boyfriend, Mike Adkins, for about a year now.

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