Dating site to fine friends and soul mate
There is an old story about a young woman on an archaeological excavation who discovers an ancient-looking lamp.
For the entire talk: text here, video here A second question we hear from you young people is “I’m so lonely. ” I have a number of things I want to say on this subject, but let’s start with the concept of finding the one person you were meant to be with — the one person who is perfect for you.
When she rubs it, a genie appears, offering her one wish.
She thinks for a moment and asks for world peace — that people would love each other and live in harmony forever.
The genie contemplates her request and finally says: “What you are asking for is impossible.
The division among the peoples of the world is too deep and has existed for too long. Anything but that.” The young lady thinks again and says: “Somewhere out there is the one person I was meant to be with.
I am eternally grateful that this didn’t happen, but I don’t believe she was my one chance at happiness in this life, nor was I hers.Another error you might easily make in dating is expecting to find perfection in the person you are with.The truth is, the only perfect people you might know are those you don’t know very well. Now, I’m not suggesting you lower your standards and marry someone with whom you can’t be happy.But one of the things I’ve realized as I’ve matured in life is that if someone is willing to accept me — imperfect as I am — then I should be willing to be patient with others’ imperfections as well.Since you won’t find perfection in your partner, and your partner won’t find it in you, your only chance at perfection is in creating perfection together.
There are those who do not marry because they feel a lack of “magic” in the relationship.